I think as you grow older your Christmas list gets smaller and the things you really want for the holidays can't be bought |
Overall I have been blessed and quite lucky to have gotten nearly everything I wanted this past Christmas -- this past year included special events (wedding, baptism, birthdays, etc) with both sides of my family tree as well as various family friends!! However my sister C and her son ("our" grandson, godson, nephew) Baby K have not slept in their beds here since the night before Thanksgiving. In a way it is helping remind me that people make their own choices and if I talk about rights -- well, it is not my "right" to see my nephew. Perhaps this separation is necessary (although only God knows what the future holds/why things occur) and hopefully it will serve as the longest period of time we shall all have to spend cut off ... disconnected ... apart ... Eventually I believe (I hope) we can all appreciate and enjoy spending time together -- life is too short as it is. Thankfully I am no longer mad, I am more hurt/disappointed. Better for health, yes? Also with certain "free time" I have forced myself to return to cleaning and sorting/donating which is a bonus
grt
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